About KK

Celebrating 19 years of empowerment, we craft unforgettable hedonistic experiences around the world. Step into a world of liberation, where excitement is limitless.

Let us introduce ourselves

Killing Kittens Parties

For over 19 years, Killing Kittens has led the way in adult lifestyle events. Drawing over 15,000 attendees annually, we celebrate the sexual pleasure of those who are traditionally disenfranchised at our luxury experiences. From London roots, we've expanded globally to 22 cities and 10 countries, welcoming over 250,000 sexually liberated individuals. Setting industry standards in service, education, consent, safety, and aftercare, we empower individuals to explore their true sexual selves without fear or judgement.

The ultimate choice

Why Killing Kittens

At Killing Kittens, we pride ourselves on offering the ultimate party experiences, prioritising your pleasure and comfort in luxurious venues.

Our codes of conduct ensure a safe and respectful environment with attentive staff who promote open communication and protect consent.

From erotic dance parties to kinky cabarets, we provide a diverse array of party themes, catering to various interests, individuals and desires.

Our unwavering commitment to discretion and privacy guarantees you can fully enjoy yourself without fear of judgement or exposure.

Where the name came from

"Every time a woman masturbates, God kills a kitten."

When our founder, Emma Sayle, first envisioned a space where women could take control of their sexuality, this bold statement served as both an inspiration and a rallying cry.

Thus, Killing Kittens was born — reclaiming a controversial sentiment to unapologetically celebrate female pleasure. Since day one, women have come first as we prioritize the safety and pleasure of our Kitten members, challenging gender stereotypes and pushing boundaries every step of the way.

Beyond Boundaries

Redefining power & revolutionising pleasure

With the focus of empowering women on their sexual journeys, Killing Kittens was founded in 2005 and began to create the most extravagant and exclusive parties in the industry. For the first time, KK ensured that women were given a position from which to lead and explore.

Since then, Killing Kittens has grown into a global phenomenon that welcomes all genders and sexualities to come and play. Focusing on empowering the traditionally disenfranchised to find love in their bodies, access to their own pleasure and nourishment in their sex lives, Killing Kittens makes sure Kittens always come first.

Through Killing Kittens many have discovered the confidence to explore and honour their true sexual selves, and partnerships and life-long friendships are forming everyday.

A movement that provides women with a platform to discover themselves in an exciting, yet safe way.

Cosmopolitan

Gender equity
Our party rules and community values have also always been about increasing equity, allowing women to step out of restrictive gender roles and embrace their sexual empowerment, whether that is exploring their desires, taking control in sexual situations or feeling confident to ask for what they really want in the bedroom.
Body positivity
We wholeheartedly embrace bodies of all shapes and sizes, celebrating the unique stories and experiences they embody. Scars, freckles, stretch marks, and wrinkles are cherished elements that make us who we are. Our parties inclusively welcome tall, short, big, small, and everything in between, as we rejoice in the beauty and diversity of all bodies.We believe our bodies are vessels for pleasure, learning, and growth, deserving of love, respect, and care. Come join us in honouring the beauty and power of all bodies at our events.
Toxic Masculinity
Killing Kittens recognises that toxic masculinity and patriarchy often contribute to problems in sex and dating, and we have implemented rules and safeguards to address these issues. Toxic masculinity, which is the perpetuation of oppression, prioritises cisgender male comfort and pleasure above the needs of others. It can manifest as touching without asking, over-familiarity, and entitlement.While we recognise that not all cisgender men exhibit toxic masculinity, we ask men to consider the impact their presence may have in our space. This is not about labelling all men as bad, but rather acknowledging the realities of our society and working towards creating a more inclusive and respectful environment for all genders.
Safety & Consent
Consent is the foundation of our community, and we are committed to creating a safe and respectful environment where everyone can fully embrace their desires and pleasure. From greeting to initiating play and discussing aftercare and expectations, we prioritise consent in all aspects of our events.Our guidelines, which all attendees must agree to, outline these principles in detail and are sent out prior to the event. Let's empower ourselves and each other as we celebrate sexuality and create an unforgettable experience.
Respect & Community
At our parties, we expect all attendees to be respectful of each other at all times. This includes not making assumptions about the gender identity, physiology, or preferences of others.Respect and consideration extend beyond gender identity to include intersections of power and vulnerability such as race and ability. We will not tolerate any form of hate-based language or behavior, including racism, ableism, sexism, fatphobia, or transphobia. Let's create a warm and welcoming environment for all to enjoy.
Inclusivity
Killing Kittens champions a world where everyone is welcomed and embraced. We celebrate diversity, value all identities, and strive to create environments where respect and empowerment are central. Join us in a sanctuary where every voice is heard, and every individual is celebrated.
Gender equity
Our party rules and community values have also always been about increasing equity, allowing women to step out of restrictive gender roles and embrace their sexual empowerment, whether that is exploring their desires, taking control in sexual situations or feeling confident to ask for what they really want in the bedroom.
Body positivity
We wholeheartedly embrace bodies of all shapes and sizes, celebrating the unique stories and experiences they embody. Scars, freckles, stretch marks, and wrinkles are cherished elements that make us who we are. Our parties inclusively welcome tall, short, big, small, and everything in between, as we rejoice in the beauty and diversity of all bodies.We believe our bodies are vessels for pleasure, learning, and growth, deserving of love, respect, and care. Come join us in honouring the beauty and power of all bodies at our events.
Toxic Masculinity
Killing Kittens recognises that toxic masculinity and patriarchy often contribute to problems in sex and dating, and we have implemented rules and safeguards to address these issues. Toxic masculinity, which is the perpetuation of oppression, prioritises cisgender male comfort and pleasure above the needs of others. It can manifest as touching without asking, over-familiarity, and entitlement.While we recognise that not all cisgender men exhibit toxic masculinity, we ask men to consider the impact their presence may have in our space. This is not about labelling all men as bad, but rather acknowledging the realities of our society and working towards creating a more inclusive and respectful environment for all genders.
Safety & Consent
Consent is the foundation of our community, and we are committed to creating a safe and respectful environment where everyone can fully embrace their desires and pleasure. From greeting to initiating play and discussing aftercare and expectations, we prioritise consent in all aspects of our events.Our guidelines, which all attendees must agree to, outline these principles in detail and are sent out prior to the event. Let's empower ourselves and each other as we celebrate sexuality and create an unforgettable experience.
Respect & Community
At our parties, we expect all attendees to be respectful of each other at all times. This includes not making assumptions about the gender identity, physiology, or preferences of others.Respect and consideration extend beyond gender identity to include intersections of power and vulnerability such as race and ability. We will not tolerate any form of hate-based language or behavior, including racism, ableism, sexism, fatphobia, or transphobia. Let's create a warm and welcoming environment for all to enjoy.
Inclusivity
Killing Kittens champions a world where everyone is welcomed and embraced. We celebrate diversity, value all identities, and strive to create environments where respect and empowerment are central. Join us in a sanctuary where every voice is heard, and every individual is celebrated.
Gender equity
Our party rules and community values have also always been about increasing equity, allowing women to step out of restrictive gender roles and embrace their sexual empowerment, whether that is exploring their desires, taking control in sexual situations or feeling confident to ask for what they really want in the bedroom.
Body positivity
We wholeheartedly embrace bodies of all shapes and sizes, celebrating the unique stories and experiences they embody. Scars, freckles, stretch marks, and wrinkles are cherished elements that make us who we are. Our parties inclusively welcome tall, short, big, small, and everything in between, as we rejoice in the beauty and diversity of all bodies.We believe our bodies are vessels for pleasure, learning, and growth, deserving of love, respect, and care. Come join us in honouring the beauty and power of all bodies at our events.
Toxic Masculinity
Killing Kittens recognises that toxic masculinity and patriarchy often contribute to problems in sex and dating, and we have implemented rules and safeguards to address these issues. Toxic masculinity, which is the perpetuation of oppression, prioritises cisgender male comfort and pleasure above the needs of others. It can manifest as touching without asking, over-familiarity, and entitlement.While we recognise that not all cisgender men exhibit toxic masculinity, we ask men to consider the impact their presence may have in our space. This is not about labelling all men as bad, but rather acknowledging the realities of our society and working towards creating a more inclusive and respectful environment for all genders.
Safety & Consent
Consent is the foundation of our community, and we are committed to creating a safe and respectful environment where everyone can fully embrace their desires and pleasure. From greeting to initiating play and discussing aftercare and expectations, we prioritise consent in all aspects of our events.Our guidelines, which all attendees must agree to, outline these principles in detail and are sent out prior to the event. Let's empower ourselves and each other as we celebrate sexuality and create an unforgettable experience.
Respect & Community
At our parties, we expect all attendees to be respectful of each other at all times. This includes not making assumptions about the gender identity, physiology, or preferences of others.Respect and consideration extend beyond gender identity to include intersections of power and vulnerability such as race and ability. We will not tolerate any form of hate-based language or behavior, including racism, ableism, sexism, fatphobia, or transphobia. Let's create a warm and welcoming environment for all to enjoy.
Inclusivity
Killing Kittens champions a world where everyone is welcomed and embraced. We celebrate diversity, value all identities, and strive to create environments where respect and empowerment are central. Join us in a sanctuary where every voice is heard, and every individual is celebrated.
Gender equity
Our party rules and community values have also always been about increasing equity, allowing women to step out of restrictive gender roles and embrace their sexual empowerment, whether that is exploring their desires, taking control in sexual situations or feeling confident to ask for what they really want in the bedroom.
Body positivity
We wholeheartedly embrace bodies of all shapes and sizes, celebrating the unique stories and experiences they embody. Scars, freckles, stretch marks, and wrinkles are cherished elements that make us who we are. Our parties inclusively welcome tall, short, big, small, and everything in between, as we rejoice in the beauty and diversity of all bodies.We believe our bodies are vessels for pleasure, learning, and growth, deserving of love, respect, and care. Come join us in honouring the beauty and power of all bodies at our events.
Toxic Masculinity
Killing Kittens recognises that toxic masculinity and patriarchy often contribute to problems in sex and dating, and we have implemented rules and safeguards to address these issues. Toxic masculinity, which is the perpetuation of oppression, prioritises cisgender male comfort and pleasure above the needs of others. It can manifest as touching without asking, over-familiarity, and entitlement.While we recognise that not all cisgender men exhibit toxic masculinity, we ask men to consider the impact their presence may have in our space. This is not about labelling all men as bad, but rather acknowledging the realities of our society and working towards creating a more inclusive and respectful environment for all genders.
Safety & Consent
Consent is the foundation of our community, and we are committed to creating a safe and respectful environment where everyone can fully embrace their desires and pleasure. From greeting to initiating play and discussing aftercare and expectations, we prioritise consent in all aspects of our events.Our guidelines, which all attendees must agree to, outline these principles in detail and are sent out prior to the event. Let's empower ourselves and each other as we celebrate sexuality and create an unforgettable experience.
Respect & Community
At our parties, we expect all attendees to be respectful of each other at all times. This includes not making assumptions about the gender identity, physiology, or preferences of others.Respect and consideration extend beyond gender identity to include intersections of power and vulnerability such as race and ability. We will not tolerate any form of hate-based language or behavior, including racism, ableism, sexism, fatphobia, or transphobia. Let's create a warm and welcoming environment for all to enjoy.
Inclusivity
Killing Kittens champions a world where everyone is welcomed and embraced. We celebrate diversity, value all identities, and strive to create environments where respect and empowerment are central. Join us in a sanctuary where every voice is heard, and every individual is celebrated.

Our values

Gender equity
Our party rules and community values have also always been about increasing equity, allowing women to step out of restrictive gender roles and embrace their sexual empowerment, whether that is exploring their desires, taking control in sexual situations or feeling confident to ask for what they really want in the bedroom.
Body positivity
We wholeheartedly embrace bodies of all shapes and sizes, celebrating the unique stories and experiences they embody. Scars, freckles, stretch marks, and wrinkles are cherished elements that make us who we are. Our parties inclusively welcome tall, short, big, small, and everything in between, as we rejoice in the beauty and diversity of all bodies.
We believe our bodies are vessels for pleasure, learning, and growth, deserving of love, respect, and care. Come join us in honouring the beauty and power of all bodies at our events.
Toxic Masculinity
Killing Kittens recognises that toxic masculinity and patriarchy often contribute to problems in sex and dating, and we have set rules and safeguards to address these issues. Toxic masculinity perpetuates oppression by prioritising cisgender male comfort and pleasure above others’ needs, manifesting as touching without consent, over-familiarity, and entitlement.
While not all cisgender men display toxic masculinity, we ask men to consider the impact their presence may have in our space. This isn’t about labelling all men as bad but rather acknowledging societal realities and working towards a more inclusive, respectful environment for all genders.
Safety & Consent
Consent is the foundation of our community, and we are committed to creating a safe and respectful environment where everyone can fully embrace their desires and pleasure. From greeting to initiating play and discussing aftercare and expectations, we prioritise consent in all aspects of our events.
Our guidelines, which all attendees must agree to, outline these principles in detail and are sent out prior to the event. Let's empower ourselves and each other as we celebrate sexuality and create an unforgettable experience.
Respect & Community
At our parties, we expect all attendees to be respectful of each other at all times. This includes not making assumptions about the gender identity, physiology, or preferences of others.
Respect and consideration extend beyond gender identity to include intersections of power and vulnerability such as race and ability. We will not tolerate any form of hate-based language or behavior, including racism, ableism, sexism, fatphobia, or transphobia. Let's create a warm and welcoming environment for all to enjoy.
Inclusivity
Killing Kittens champions a world where everyone is welcomed and embraced. We celebrate diversity, value all identities, and strive to create environments where respect and empowerment are central. Join us in a sanctuary where every voice is heard, and every individual is celebrated.
Gender equity
Our party rules and community values have also always been about increasing equity, allowing women to step out of restrictive gender roles and embrace their sexual empowerment, whether that is exploring their desires, taking control in sexual situations or feeling confident to ask for what they really want in the bedroom.
Body positivity
We wholeheartedly embrace bodies of all shapes and sizes, celebrating the unique stories and experiences they embody. Scars, freckles, stretch marks, and wrinkles are cherished elements that make us who we are. Our parties inclusively welcome tall, short, big, small, and everything in between, as we rejoice in the beauty and diversity of all bodies.
We believe our bodies are vessels for pleasure, learning, and growth, deserving of love, respect, and care. Come join us in honouring the beauty and power of all bodies at our events.
Toxic Masculinity
Killing Kittens recognises that toxic masculinity and patriarchy often contribute to problems in sex and dating, and we have set rules and safeguards to address these issues. Toxic masculinity perpetuates oppression by prioritising cisgender male comfort and pleasure above others’ needs, manifesting as touching without consent, over-familiarity, and entitlement.
While not all cisgender men display toxic masculinity, we ask men to consider the impact their presence may have in our space. This isn’t about labelling all men as bad but rather acknowledging societal realities and working towards a more inclusive, respectful environment for all genders.
Safety & Consent
Consent is the foundation of our community, and we are committed to creating a safe and respectful environment where everyone can fully embrace their desires and pleasure. From greeting to initiating play and discussing aftercare and expectations, we prioritise consent in all aspects of our events.
Our guidelines, which all attendees must agree to, outline these principles in detail and are sent out prior to the event. Let's empower ourselves and each other as we celebrate sexuality and create an unforgettable experience.
Respect & Community
At our parties, we expect all attendees to be respectful of each other at all times. This includes not making assumptions about the gender identity, physiology, or preferences of others.
Respect and consideration extend beyond gender identity to include intersections of power and vulnerability such as race and ability. We will not tolerate any form of hate-based language or behavior, including racism, ableism, sexism, fatphobia, or transphobia. Let's create a warm and welcoming environment for all to enjoy.
Inclusivity
Killing Kittens champions a world where everyone is welcomed and embraced. We celebrate diversity, value all identities, and strive to create environments where respect and empowerment are central. Join us in a sanctuary where every voice is heard, and every individual is celebrated.
Gender equity
Our party rules and community values have also always been about increasing equity, allowing women to step out of restrictive gender roles and embrace their sexual empowerment, whether that is exploring their desires, taking control in sexual situations or feeling confident to ask for what they really want in the bedroom.
Body positivity
We wholeheartedly embrace bodies of all shapes and sizes, celebrating the unique stories and experiences they embody. Scars, freckles, stretch marks, and wrinkles are cherished elements that make us who we are. Our parties inclusively welcome tall, short, big, small, and everything in between, as we rejoice in the beauty and diversity of all bodies.
We believe our bodies are vessels for pleasure, learning, and growth, deserving of love, respect, and care. Come join us in honouring the beauty and power of all bodies at our events.
Toxic Masculinity
Killing Kittens recognises that toxic masculinity and patriarchy often contribute to problems in sex and dating, and we have set rules and safeguards to address these issues. Toxic masculinity perpetuates oppression by prioritising cisgender male comfort and pleasure above others’ needs, manifesting as touching without consent, over-familiarity, and entitlement.
While not all cisgender men display toxic masculinity, we ask men to consider the impact their presence may have in our space. This isn’t about labelling all men as bad but rather acknowledging societal realities and working towards a more inclusive, respectful environment for all genders.
Safety & Consent
Consent is the foundation of our community, and we are committed to creating a safe and respectful environment where everyone can fully embrace their desires and pleasure. From greeting to initiating play and discussing aftercare and expectations, we prioritise consent in all aspects of our events.
Our guidelines, which all attendees must agree to, outline these principles in detail and are sent out prior to the event. Let's empower ourselves and each other as we celebrate sexuality and create an unforgettable experience.
Respect & Community
At our parties, we expect all attendees to be respectful of each other at all times. This includes not making assumptions about the gender identity, physiology, or preferences of others.
Respect and consideration extend beyond gender identity to include intersections of power and vulnerability such as race and ability. We will not tolerate any form of hate-based language or behavior, including racism, ableism, sexism, fatphobia, or transphobia. Let's create a warm and welcoming environment for all to enjoy.
Inclusivity
Killing Kittens champions a world where everyone is welcomed and embraced. We celebrate diversity, value all identities, and strive to create environments where respect and empowerment are central. Join us in a sanctuary where every voice is heard, and every individual is celebrated.
Gender equity
Our party rules and community values have also always been about increasing equity, allowing women to step out of restrictive gender roles and embrace their sexual empowerment, whether that is exploring their desires, taking control in sexual situations or feeling confident to ask for what they really want in the bedroom.
Body positivity
We wholeheartedly embrace bodies of all shapes and sizes, celebrating the unique stories and experiences they embody. Scars, freckles, stretch marks, and wrinkles are cherished elements that make us who we are. Our parties inclusively welcome tall, short, big, small, and everything in between, as we rejoice in the beauty and diversity of all bodies.
We believe our bodies are vessels for pleasure, learning, and growth, deserving of love, respect, and care. Come join us in honouring the beauty and power of all bodies at our events.
Toxic Masculinity
Killing Kittens recognises that toxic masculinity and patriarchy often contribute to problems in sex and dating, and we have set rules and safeguards to address these issues. Toxic masculinity perpetuates oppression by prioritising cisgender male comfort and pleasure above others’ needs, manifesting as touching without consent, over-familiarity, and entitlement.
While not all cisgender men display toxic masculinity, we ask men to consider the impact their presence may have in our space. This isn’t about labelling all men as bad but rather acknowledging societal realities and working towards a more inclusive, respectful environment for all genders.
Safety & Consent
Consent is the foundation of our community, and we are committed to creating a safe and respectful environment where everyone can fully embrace their desires and pleasure. From greeting to initiating play and discussing aftercare and expectations, we prioritise consent in all aspects of our events.
Our guidelines, which all attendees must agree to, outline these principles in detail and are sent out prior to the event. Let's empower ourselves and each other as we celebrate sexuality and create an unforgettable experience.
Respect & Community
At our parties, we expect all attendees to be respectful of each other at all times. This includes not making assumptions about the gender identity, physiology, or preferences of others.
Respect and consideration extend beyond gender identity to include intersections of power and vulnerability such as race and ability. We will not tolerate any form of hate-based language or behavior, including racism, ableism, sexism, fatphobia, or transphobia. Let's create a warm and welcoming environment for all to enjoy.
Inclusivity
Killing Kittens champions a world where everyone is welcomed and embraced. We celebrate diversity, value all identities, and strive to create environments where respect and empowerment are central. Join us in a sanctuary where every voice is heard, and every individual is celebrated.

Gender equity
Our party rules and community values have also always been about increasing equity, allowing women to step out of restrictive gender roles and embrace their sexual empowerment, whether that is exploring their desires, taking control in sexual situations or feeling confident to ask for what they really want in the bedroom.
Body positivity
We wholeheartedly embrace bodies of all shapes and sizes, celebrating the unique stories and experiences they embody. Scars, freckles, stretch marks, and wrinkles are cherished elements that make us who we are. Our parties inclusively welcome tall, short, big, small, and everything in between, as we rejoice in the beauty and diversity of all bodies.
We believe our bodies are vessels for pleasure, learning, and growth, deserving of love, respect, and care. Come join us in honouring the beauty and power of all bodies at our events.
Toxic Masculinity
Killing Kittens recognises that toxic masculinity and patriarchy often contribute to problems in sex and dating, and we have set rules and safeguards to address these issues. Toxic masculinity perpetuates oppression by prioritising cisgender male comfort and pleasure above others’ needs, manifesting as touching without consent, over-familiarity, and entitlement.
While not all cisgender men display toxic masculinity, we ask men to consider the impact their presence may have in our space. This isn’t about labelling all men as bad but rather acknowledging societal realities and working towards a more inclusive, respectful environment for all genders.
Safety & Consent
Consent is the foundation of our community, and we are committed to creating a safe and respectful environment where everyone can fully embrace their desires and pleasure. From greeting to initiating play and discussing aftercare and expectations, we prioritise consent in all aspects of our events.
Our guidelines, which all attendees must agree to, outline these principles in detail and are sent out prior to the event. Let's empower ourselves and each other as we celebrate sexuality and create an unforgettable experience.
Respect & Community
At our parties, we expect all attendees to be respectful of each other at all times. This includes not making assumptions about the gender identity, physiology, or preferences of others.
Respect and consideration extend beyond gender identity to include intersections of power and vulnerability such as race and ability. We will not tolerate any form of hate-based language or behavior, including racism, ableism, sexism, fatphobia, or transphobia. Let's create a warm and welcoming environment for all to enjoy.
Inclusivity
Killing Kittens champions a world where everyone is welcomed and embraced. We celebrate diversity, value all identities, and strive to create environments where respect and empowerment are central. Join us in a sanctuary where every voice is heard, and every individual is celebrated.
Gender equity
Our party rules and community values have also always been about increasing equity, allowing women to step out of restrictive gender roles and embrace their sexual empowerment, whether that is exploring their desires, taking control in sexual situations or feeling confident to ask for what they really want in the bedroom.
Body positivity
We wholeheartedly embrace bodies of all shapes and sizes, celebrating the unique stories and experiences they embody. Scars, freckles, stretch marks, and wrinkles are cherished elements that make us who we are. Our parties inclusively welcome tall, short, big, small, and everything in between, as we rejoice in the beauty and diversity of all bodies.
We believe our bodies are vessels for pleasure, learning, and growth, deserving of love, respect, and care. Come join us in honouring the beauty and power of all bodies at our events.
Toxic Masculinity
Killing Kittens recognises that toxic masculinity and patriarchy often contribute to problems in sex and dating, and we have set rules and safeguards to address these issues. Toxic masculinity perpetuates oppression by prioritising cisgender male comfort and pleasure above others’ needs, manifesting as touching without consent, over-familiarity, and entitlement.
While not all cisgender men display toxic masculinity, we ask men to consider the impact their presence may have in our space. This isn’t about labelling all men as bad but rather acknowledging societal realities and working towards a more inclusive, respectful environment for all genders.
Safety & Consent
Consent is the foundation of our community, and we are committed to creating a safe and respectful environment where everyone can fully embrace their desires and pleasure. From greeting to initiating play and discussing aftercare and expectations, we prioritise consent in all aspects of our events.
Our guidelines, which all attendees must agree to, outline these principles in detail and are sent out prior to the event. Let's empower ourselves and each other as we celebrate sexuality and create an unforgettable experience.
Respect & Community
At our parties, we expect all attendees to be respectful of each other at all times. This includes not making assumptions about the gender identity, physiology, or preferences of others.
Respect and consideration extend beyond gender identity to include intersections of power and vulnerability such as race and ability. We will not tolerate any form of hate-based language or behavior, including racism, ableism, sexism, fatphobia, or transphobia. Let's create a warm and welcoming environment for all to enjoy.
Inclusivity
Killing Kittens champions a world where everyone is welcomed and embraced. We celebrate diversity, value all identities, and strive to create environments where respect and empowerment are central. Join us in a sanctuary where every voice is heard, and every individual is celebrated.
Gender equity
Our party rules and community values have also always been about increasing equity, allowing women to step out of restrictive gender roles and embrace their sexual empowerment, whether that is exploring their desires, taking control in sexual situations or feeling confident to ask for what they really want in the bedroom.
Body positivity
We wholeheartedly embrace bodies of all shapes and sizes, celebrating the unique stories and experiences they embody. Scars, freckles, stretch marks, and wrinkles are cherished elements that make us who we are. Our parties inclusively welcome tall, short, big, small, and everything in between, as we rejoice in the beauty and diversity of all bodies.
We believe our bodies are vessels for pleasure, learning, and growth, deserving of love, respect, and care. Come join us in honouring the beauty and power of all bodies at our events.
Toxic Masculinity
Killing Kittens recognises that toxic masculinity and patriarchy often contribute to problems in sex and dating, and we have set rules and safeguards to address these issues. Toxic masculinity perpetuates oppression by prioritising cisgender male comfort and pleasure above others’ needs, manifesting as touching without consent, over-familiarity, and entitlement.
While not all cisgender men display toxic masculinity, we ask men to consider the impact their presence may have in our space. This isn’t about labelling all men as bad but rather acknowledging societal realities and working towards a more inclusive, respectful environment for all genders.
Safety & Consent
Consent is the foundation of our community, and we are committed to creating a safe and respectful environment where everyone can fully embrace their desires and pleasure. From greeting to initiating play and discussing aftercare and expectations, we prioritise consent in all aspects of our events.
Our guidelines, which all attendees must agree to, outline these principles in detail and are sent out prior to the event. Let's empower ourselves and each other as we celebrate sexuality and create an unforgettable experience.
Respect & Community
At our parties, we expect all attendees to be respectful of each other at all times. This includes not making assumptions about the gender identity, physiology, or preferences of others.
Respect and consideration extend beyond gender identity to include intersections of power and vulnerability such as race and ability. We will not tolerate any form of hate-based language or behavior, including racism, ableism, sexism, fatphobia, or transphobia. Let's create a warm and welcoming environment for all to enjoy.
Inclusivity
Killing Kittens champions a world where everyone is welcomed and embraced. We celebrate diversity, value all identities, and strive to create environments where respect and empowerment are central. Join us in a sanctuary where every voice is heard, and every individual is celebrated.
Gender equity
Our party rules and community values have also always been about increasing equity, allowing women to step out of restrictive gender roles and embrace their sexual empowerment, whether that is exploring their desires, taking control in sexual situations or feeling confident to ask for what they really want in the bedroom.
Body positivity
We wholeheartedly embrace bodies of all shapes and sizes, celebrating the unique stories and experiences they embody. Scars, freckles, stretch marks, and wrinkles are cherished elements that make us who we are. Our parties inclusively welcome tall, short, big, small, and everything in between, as we rejoice in the beauty and diversity of all bodies.
We believe our bodies are vessels for pleasure, learning, and growth, deserving of love, respect, and care. Come join us in honouring the beauty and power of all bodies at our events.
Toxic Masculinity
Killing Kittens recognises that toxic masculinity and patriarchy often contribute to problems in sex and dating, and we have set rules and safeguards to address these issues. Toxic masculinity perpetuates oppression by prioritising cisgender male comfort and pleasure above others’ needs, manifesting as touching without consent, over-familiarity, and entitlement.
While not all cisgender men display toxic masculinity, we ask men to consider the impact their presence may have in our space. This isn’t about labelling all men as bad but rather acknowledging societal realities and working towards a more inclusive, respectful environment for all genders.
Safety & Consent
Consent is the foundation of our community, and we are committed to creating a safe and respectful environment where everyone can fully embrace their desires and pleasure. From greeting to initiating play and discussing aftercare and expectations, we prioritise consent in all aspects of our events.
Our guidelines, which all attendees must agree to, outline these principles in detail and are sent out prior to the event. Let's empower ourselves and each other as we celebrate sexuality and create an unforgettable experience.
Respect & Community
At our parties, we expect all attendees to be respectful of each other at all times. This includes not making assumptions about the gender identity, physiology, or preferences of others.
Respect and consideration extend beyond gender identity to include intersections of power and vulnerability such as race and ability. We will not tolerate any form of hate-based language or behavior, including racism, ableism, sexism, fatphobia, or transphobia. Let's create a warm and welcoming environment for all to enjoy.
Inclusivity
Killing Kittens champions a world where everyone is welcomed and embraced. We celebrate diversity, value all identities, and strive to create environments where respect and empowerment are central. Join us in a sanctuary where every voice is heard, and every individual is celebrated.